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Help me be with my Poppy
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This site is dedicated to my son Bubby.
I am a middle-aged father, who dearly loves his son, Bubby. He is my only son, and we have a very special relationship together. We are very close and have a great time whenever we are together. I have been fighting a custody battle for him over the past year.
Bubby is almost 3 years years old now. His mother left me a year ago saying "I'm not happy and I'm no good for you like this", and filed for divorce. She is attempting to gain custody of Bubby, and then move him out of state and some 6 hours away from me. This is unfair to both of us, and certainly is not in Bubby's best interest. But she is not thinking about what is best for him, only about what she wants now.
I have built this site to try to raise money to help me continue the battle to keep my son living near me or with me where he belongs as opposed to him being taken away from me by his mother moving him out of state. I have gone completely broke in this custody battle for him, and I am now utterly destitute as well. I am not a bum, but rather I have worked hard and held steady jobs over the past 28 years. But now I am living in my parents garage. I have lost everything in this battle; my home, my car, my possessions, any savings and any other assets of any kind, my health (physical AND emotional), my job, and have completely exhausted any assets I once had. I have had no help from anybody in this battle, while my wife has had substantial financial help. I need to raise $25,000 to pay off debts incurred during this custody battle and to get my own place and a cheap car again. I told my lawyer when this began, that I would fight this to my last penny and my last breath if necessary because this was just plain WRONG. Little did I know just how close to this I would come.
It is my hope that through this website, I can raise money to become solvent once again, get my own apartment, car, etc. This will allow me to continue on with the custody battle to prevent my wife from taking my son away from me. Having lost everything including my home, I am now at a great disadvantage to her as far as how it is seen in they eyes of the court. I am slowly recovering from major illnesses that the doctors have told me more than likely were brought on by the extreme stress this battle has put me through this past year. However, I have not yet been able to find any work of significance that I can do with my current health limitations.
I was a very good husband (not perfect), and I am a great father who is desperately in love with his son. He is all I live for now as I have no interest in dating or a relationship at this time. And he has no choice in this. The court will decide his fate. He loves me dearly, as I do him. He loves his mommy also, and I would NEVER think of taking him far away from her as she is me. I wish her no ill, I am merely trying to protect my son Bubby and my own interests. He needs his daddy more than for a few hours every other weekend as she is suggesting.
I just started this website on 8/1/2003, and know it is quite bare yet. I will add more to it and keep it updated as time goes by. I am limited to how much time I can devote to that though, as I now have to primarily use the computers at the library and they only allow me one hour per day.
Thank-you for visiting my website. Any comments, or questions are welcome. I will attempt to answer every e-mail I receive unless they become too numerous. I plan on adding a counter, a FAQ page, a daily, weekly, monthly update on contributions and status of events in Bubby and my life, and court proceedings........Bubby's Poppy
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If you would like to help my son and me out, please feel free to send us a gift by clicking on either of the PayPal icons below. Any size gift will be greatly appreciated, so feel free to send anything you can. A single dollar added together with a lot of other single dollars can do wonders and will be ever so much appreciated. Thank-you
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Bubby, the love of my life
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